December 16, 2009
I’m still a virgin because I didn’t seize the opportunity….
My best friend and I had grown very close over the years. I’ve known her all my life. Then a separation happened where we lost touch for a couple years. Finally, we met up again and I had found out she had become pregnant from a guy who ran off when she told him. But being the loving friend that I am and always will be, I didn’t hold anything against her and welcomed her warmly. After a busy day where we were under the watchful eyes of our family members, we finally got some alone time to catch up.
Things quickly started getting heated. I was surprised that the magical little spark between us was still there. Kissing, caressing and touching areas of the female body I had only dreamed of touching. I could see it in her eyes that she was very willing to take it further.
And guess what? Nope. I’m still a virgin because I didn’t seize the opportunity. I wanted to, but I was just taking it way too slow and now I regret it. We ran out of time and that was that. She had to leave state the next day. I had wet dreams of that moment for a month, all the while I was smacking myself for being an idiotic turtle. I can’t believe I was just minutes away from taking a great opportunity to lose my virginity bareback (without a condom) to a woman I actually loved, without the consequences of her becoming pregnant as she already was!
(We were both 20, by the way. No sick stuff or anything.)
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At 11:27 pm on December 16, 2009, Cooper commented:
But maybe it’s better you didn’t. She’s already got so much to contend with — sleeping with you might have been just too complicated, too much, you know? And condoms are important to prevent VD, not just pregnancy.
At 1:23 pm on October 19, 2010, Ella commented:
Don’t regret it. That was the perfect move. I am proud of you. I don’t Know what happened after this. But save sex for the one you MARRIED. Hopefully the person that you marry one day is a virgin too because if they had sex with other people,then YOU’RE having sex with THEM too. So you would be having sex with the guy that got her pregnant and left her and whoever else had sex with him. You will have sex with your wife and REGRET not saving something special for her. If you do have sex before marriage,WEAR A CONDOM!!! People see sex as an activity and people go to the clinic for STD’s EVERYday
At 3:15 am on September 11, 2011, Anonymous commented:
You didn’t for a reason even though you may not realize it you made a smart move,