February 3, 2010
The neediness prevented me from respecting you as I should have….
You still wonder why I didn’t want to be with you. I wish you didn’t. You’re so bright and kind, but here it is: you’re too desperate and you wear it all over you like a bad rash. It’s oppressive to a woman, especially this one. Also, I’m sorry to have to say this, but you are so alarmingly hairy. Your chest hair was like hair from someone’s head — really long and straight a little frightening (like a coat). You were an unbelievable lover (I’m not kidding, all your intensity works soooo well for you there), but the hair was, well, overwhelming, and the neediness prevented me from respecting you as I should have. I couldn’t see past it to all your many qualities. Sometimes we can’t control what attracts us, what makes us stay and feel safe with someone, but I don’t want you to wonder anymore.
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