November 7, 2011
I’ve been sleeping with a married man for a little over six months now….
I’ve been sleeping with a married man for a little over six months now. It’s been killing me inside. But I woke up this morning and realized it’s been a long time since I’ve felt for someone as I do for him. I’ve tried to tell myself I don’t love him, that I couldn’t love someone who was married. But I’m lying to myself. I do love him and would do anything for him. He doesn’t have any children which I feel would really steer me away… He’s just in a loveless marriage away from his friends and family. He is just like me in a man form. He have so much fun when we are together. He told me he looked into divorce the other day… I know I definitely don’t need to be getting my hopes up but I am miserable without him. I’ve been miserable for so long and have finally found someone to makes me feel alive again. I believe that everything happens for a reason. If we are meant to be apart then we will be. But as they say you can’t help who you love. Love knows no boundaries. In my eyes he is perfect for me.
Submitted by: Jaimie
At 3:12 pm on November 9, 2011, Watch your back commented:
Who knows? You might be the exception — you might have a good guy who will leave his loveless marriage for you; you might be happy together. I hope so! OR you might have a guy who bores of women after the initial infatuation, who will do to you what he’s doing to his wife. I hope not. Just love yourself hard, try to put yourself first, your future, your sanity. When we expect love affairs to be like a vacation from our everyday, we’re often disappointed; vacations, by their nature, don’t last.
At 12:00 am on January 11, 2012, christi commented:
I was in a similar relationship. I did get burned. 🙁 We talked for 7 months and had fun a few times. We would talk everyday. Then He stopped and I kept asking myself what I could have done differently . But realized it wasn’t me , but it was his issues with his marriage . I just hope you definitely put yourself first , and the odds are against you.