October 13, 2008
I regret your affair as the dark cloud forever changing my truths…
I regret the pain your affair caused me and our children, and yes–her too. As a single mother, she was very vulnerable and I forgave her a long time ago. You never told me how unhappy you were or how we could fix things. Given a chance, I’d still walk through fire for you and I regret you lost sight of that, of me, of us and our love to be with her. We are working so hard to put “us” back together, yet I regret your affair as the dark cloud forever changing my truths that I was a good wife, mother, friend, person. I regret your actions and that she never stopped to realize that under differing circumstances, she and I could have been friends. We had, in addition to our love for you, so much in common, including this pain we live with every day.
Submitted by: Spark1111
At 3:06 pm on November 6, 2009, lostinlove commented:
Thank you for forgiving her.
At 12:14 pm on December 30, 2010, Jean commented:
You’re an amazing woman! Love, honor, kindness, compassion, are traits more valuable than gold. Any man selfish enough to throw you away, does not deserve you. Don’t make him an idol, don’t become a martyr to one unworthy. Let go and let God.