October 29, 2008
How do I fix my marriage?
Several months ago my husband announced that he needed a BREAK from our marriage and he moved out. A few weeks later I had a miscarriage, that would have been our second child together. I went into an even worse emotional spin after I lost the baby. Two months after that, I met someone else and got pregnant again but all of these months later, I still miss my husband. Neither of us has filed for divorce. I am living with the person who knocked-me up and my husband parties all of the time. If I had a re-do button I would re-do the problems in my marriage. I don’t have that re-do button and I don’t know if my problems with my husband are fixable now that I have rushed into another relationship. How do I fix my marriage?
Submitted by: Shelly
At 8:50 pm on November 10, 2008, Kelly commented:
Have you tried to talk to your husband or are you too afraid he’ll reject you? I must say he doesn’t sound like much of a prize. And are you using birth control? I don’t mean to patronize, but it’s unfair to bring a child into a relationship that’s not loving or not completely so…
At 8:42 am on April 2, 2011, Still in love. commented:
If your husband is the love of your life, talk to him and get therapy together. If you are hanging on just because it is what you know, move on and get therapy for yourself. You deserve true happiness, you are wonderful, and you need to know it.