December 12, 2009
I’m also sleeping with a married man….
I’m also sleeping with a married man. I’m not proud of it! It just is what it is! Every day I think about how stupid I am and then he calls and I quickly forget those thoughts! I really want out!
Submitted by: cutestupidgirl
From editors: Also see post titled “I’m sleeping with a married man” from June 2, 2007 and all its attendant comments.
At 1:38 am on December 30, 2009, Samantha commented:
Quick question honey. Do you ever stop to think about what you really want out of this? I have done it twice, first guy wanted to leave the wife and kid to be with me. Second realized he really really wanted to fix his marriage and “apologized” the last time he saw me. Whether he was regretting that we ever happened or regretting hurting me, he didn’t say. Needless to say, I fell for the one who did not offer me anything and did not develop any feelings for the one that did. I still see them both on an almost daily basis and while I don’t even think about the affair when I see the one that loves me, I can’t help but think about how much I miss the one that doesn’t. I would call it payback.
Honest wishes, hope you enjoy and cherish every minute of it, because I know I lived for them and don’t regret a single one. But if you wish otherwise I hope you find a way out of this without being hurt.
At 2:46 pm on January 12, 2010, Carmen commented:
I hope that you get the strenght to move on. Let’s not discuss the devastation you are inflicting on innocent people, (his wife and children). Let’s talk about the devastation he is causing you! You have already said that you are not proud of your affair. Does your relationship with him make you feel good about yourself? Are you able to understand that in the end, you will be hurt twice as much, as the hurt you are bestowing on his family. Do you really think he has any respect for you? Do you have respect for yourself?
At 8:15 pm on March 2, 2010, Curious commented:
Have you moved on yet?