February 22, 2010
I have had sex with the boyfriend of one of my best friends five times….
I have had sex with the boyfriend of one of my best friends five times in the last few months…. it only happens when we are out and had a few drinks… but I find myself thinking of him lately. I dont know whats wrong with me, its not about the sex (even though its good) its about the way he makes me feel. I know on the other hand he is not gonna leave her and its going nowhere. I am starting to think i have no respect for myself, but I dont know what to do, how to stop it or if i want to stop it. I need help, i am thinking on going for counselling, but will it help?
Submitted by: S&L
At 1:47 pm on February 22, 2010, A friend commented:
Yes, it will help. It will give you some clarity about what you want. And I don’t think you’d want this guy even if he were free. If he’d cheat on your friend with you, what sort of partner would he be to you? Step away from him and the sex, get your head clear, and look into a good counselor or therapist. It could really help make you stronger, more self-protective. Good luck. Be well.