April 11, 2010
I’m just dying to get a piece of him….
I have been having immense sexual and emotional attraction with a 39 year-old man. I myself am only 19.
I have been having older men constantly hit on me since I was 17. My father’s friends and my friend’s father’s friends… I don’t mind this very much because I am so attracted to men. Boys my age are immature… Instead of waiting 5 years I just go for older men. Well, I started getting annoyed when a married man continually pursued me. So, I have been shunning men and boys lately purely because they’ve been so dull.
Well, I met my neighbor after just moving into some “half-house” apartments. His roommate was irritating me so, I was about to walk away when he came out the door. He was holding a beer, tattooed, bright eyes, and sexy smile. He invited me in and we listened to music I loved, talked about drumming (we are both drummers), and watched our favorite Comedy Central shows. I was just struck by his good-looks. I immediately pegged him very much so out of my league, but that wasn’t going to stop me from flirting with him.
It’s been a couple months and now I’m just dying to get a piece of him. We had a big party and we spent pretty much all night together drumming and playing different music. He was actually looking at me, touching my leg, rubbing my back. The light bulb lit up, I saw my opportunity, but I went home. We continue to continue where we left off every time we catch one another and I’m just thinking to myself, “Should I?”
He is single, has his own place, stable job, and has COUNTLESS things in common with me. I’m most definitely feeling like we could date, but a 20 year difference? Will I regret it? Does it seem like I should just try and move on?
Submitted by: Drummer Girl
At 4:33 am on April 12, 2010, Married to an older man I cherish but can't convince of that. commented:
Run for the nearest exit my dear! I was with someone 15 years older than me and it was a nightmare. First there was trying to get him to see I really cared about him, then came the jealousy issues,and finally it got tiring consoling him about his looks. When you are constantly stroking their egos there’s no time to well, ahem, stroke other things. I would say go no more than 12 years older than yourself.Hope it helps.
At 5:00 am on April 24, 2010, Hurtinggirl commented:
I know someone who was with someone else. There was a twelve year difference. And my friend was constantly “stroking her partners ego” as the person above me put it. It’s just hard to have acrelationship with such an age gap. Proceed with caution??
At 4:44 am on June 8, 2010, Jim T commented:
A 20-year difference is *perfect*!