August 10, 2011
I regret that I might have just let you ruin other guys for me….
I regret that after all these months I still find myself thinking about you and missing you. We had talked of marriage. We told each other how lucky we were to find one another in this crazy world. The chemistry we had on every level was amazing. And I took it for granted that when you said you’d love me forever you meant it. You ended it and I was hurt and angry and sad. Months later I regret that even though I feel ‘over’ it I am constantly worried I’ll never be over you the way I should be. I regret that maybe I’ll never find the same connection with a new guy I had with you again. I’ve dated other guys since. I’ve slept with other guys since. But all of it leaves me feeling more empty than anything because they aren’t you and I don’t feel the way I did when I was with you. I regret that I might’ve just let you ruin other guys for me.
Submitted by: Kelsey
At 8:09 pm on January 10, 2012, anonymous commented:
if you can still reach him,let him know you still care about him,but if you cannot for whatever reasons,you will have to be brave and move on,if he ended it and does not want to reconnect with you there is little you can do about it,no matter how much you want him to love you,if he does not you are in a hopeless situation and wasting your time and your life,you must give yourself a chance and STOP comparing every man you meet to him!give yourself a chance to know them without the shadow of your ex hovering over you,you might need some counselling to help you see things in perspective,you deserve better than this,life passes and faster than you realise.Take care.