January 23, 2012
If we get caught his wife will forgive him and I will lose everything….
OK this is my 1st but i have to tell someone. I am a married 27 year old paramedic with 1 year boy. My husband and I get along but we never see each other and I know he never cheats. I have gained a lot of weight after having my baby so my self esteem is low. Well a guy at work started hitting on me. He got fired from his last job for sexual comments but i like him. We ended up kissing and then later messing around but never having full sex. The part that make this even worst is he is Amish and married so i know nothing will come of it. But if we get caught his wife will forgive him and I will lose everything but i have a hard time saying no, he has this way with me.
Submitted by: medic
At 10:24 pm on January 25, 2012, Confused commented:
I am also 27 married and I also was fooling around with another married man. STAY AWAY. Save yourself the heartache :(. I was burned twice. I mean my husband knows about it and we have different circumstances. But I never expected the other guy to go back to his wife and he was stringing me along for himself. I deserve better and so do you. You can do better and will.
At 6:56 pm on January 26, 2012, anonymous commented:
first of all,what is the situation in your life that causes you never to see your husband? you have a child who needs both his parents,your child should be your priority.What does your marriage mean to you?there, is a man whith whom you get on well,whom you know never cheats on you,and yet you cheat on him with a man who has a wife and as you say, because of his religion he is never likely to divorce her should your affair become known and cause heartache all around.Think of your baby who need a father and a mother together to feel secure,children pick up a lot more from their environment than one realise,they pick up all sorts of feelings positive and negative,and some of what goes on around them can really unsettle them and wound them and cause problems later on.You have a family,it is a GIFT not given to everyone,you feel attracted to the man you are seeing now but that does not mean you have to give in to him,in marriage people often feel attracted to others but do not act on it,unless the marriage is doomed and yours does not appears to be.Do something about what is keeping you and your husband apart so much,and stop betraying him because that is just what you are doing.
At 12:50 am on January 29, 2012, misunderstood commented:
Do you love your husband. I read what you said about you and him getting along but do you guys love each other.tell him what happened and how you are feeling and if he loves you yall will work it out but if he doesnt than just be done with the marriage.but either way forget about the guy your messing around with beacause he will only add to your list of problems.line is bottom you want someone who is gonna need you as much as you need him and that other guys is already giving away 50% of his need to his wife:)