I slept with one of my gay friends, who has a boyfriend, at a party over the weekend….now i cant stop thinking about him and think i now have feelings for him…and to make matters worse…i work with him….i dont want to cause his relationship harm or pain…i just want to move on.
Submitted by: sj
i regret ever meeting you dad. i thought that meeting you would be great…that you would love me and stand by me no matter what. i never imagined in my wildest dreams that you would hurt me with your words and lies and that after everything i’ve done for you that you would treat me like a animal…no worst then that…and that you made me hate me… i’m gald i said goodbye to you for the last time and i cant wait till your gone to where i never have to see you again…
Submitted by: all alone now
I regret that I never gave you the time of day when I should have. Instead I was blind and I gave you the cold shoulder. I can’t believe I wasted my time going after that other guy (with no results) when you were standing right in front of me. I wish I could see you again and start over.
Submitted by: S
i slept with a prostitute three months ago. i had been waiting for the right girl all my life (brought up in a sort of a conservative family) and it just got to a point that i felt frustrated and angry at the choices I made over the years (not dating as much and being too serious about everything). I did not plan this, I went out with a friend for a few drinks and picked up a girl who I knew was a prostitute. I used protection. But honestly did not even enjoy it…and now I feel like crap for doing it!!
Submitted by: Someone w/ a lot of guilt
I reget that I wasted 5 years of my life. I didn’t even try to care what happened to me.
Submitted by: Jake
I regret all the lies I have told to friends and family. I regret not listening to those who knew what was best for me, and doing well in school. Now I’m stuck in a rut, I feel like I’ll never get out of it. I have no motivation to move forwards, as much as I WANT it, when I try to act upon my future I fail.
I regret being me.
Submitted by: G
I regret running for office. I never knew people would be such assholes and cast aspersions on every move I made and my intentions to make this a better place…or attack my wife and daughters. I hoped we could work together and try to address the problems that faced our common humanity. I thought my supporters would stick with me for more than 9 months. I didn’t know I would be blamed for everything that has happened whether this week or 8 years ago. But mostly I regret not going down to that news station and bitch slapping Glenn Beck.
Submitted by: O
I regret that I can’t trust my husband and that I don’t have the strength to confront his lies.
Submitted by: m
i regret believing you were different… you tried to make me believe that you weren’t like him… that you wouldn’t hurt me like he did. turns out you were even worse. after 2 years of everything we’ve been through you just forget about me…so what you moved to another country? we’ve done long distance before and it worked perfectly… i’m lonely and unwell… hope you’re enjoying…
Submitted by: No Name
I regret putting you on hold. I just didn’t know what else to do. I could see in your eyes how much you loved me and I know somewhere deep inside I love you that way too. I just need this time to figure out my feelings and get back on track. If I lose you I will regret it forever but it has to be this way. I am so sorry.
Submitted by: Craig
i regret sleeping with you. i love you, youre my first. i just regret the actual thing. because since it happened we barely see each other. sure we talk on the phone each night, but its not the same, and i feel like something is missing. perhaps im making this whole thing become complicated, but i regret letting you touch me. before that happened, everything was going great. i miss you. can we sort this out?
Submitted by: enigma
Seriously, i have many regrets in my life. There are many things i’ve not done in the past that caused difficulties in the present and future. Perhaps i must learn to let go of the past and look forward to the future. There are many feelings, thoughts and emotions that are suppressed. Many secrets that are kept within… The biggest regret i have is not being able to take care of myself when i was younger. Thus, anger and frustrations built up over the years and now it’s hard to shake them off. I asked myself, do i want to carry on living in the past? Why is past so important to me that i keep holding on? Holding on to the past only makes me more miserable and the people around me suffer too. Past is evil.
Submitted by: No name
I regret being too stupid to realize that some one could love me, even when they were standing right there.
I also regret that because of me being so stupid and not realizing we got in to a fight and just for one night you went to someone else for support and she took advantage of you. And now you have a kid you love to death.
And because you are such an upstanding guy you married your kid’s mother even though you don’t love her because its the right thing to do.
I regret that we are not friends anymore, we went from texting all day and talking all night to nothing at all.
I miss you…
Submitted by: H.K.
I will probably never get to see you again my darling, our lives have both changed so much, such is the nature of time and distance, my heart holds such remorse for so many of my thoughtless actions, but to my dying day I shall regret leaving you, your love saved me from my sorrow, and in my madness, and dispair, I treated it too lightly, and lost you. Which was well deserved. I wish I could undo the pain and hurt I caused you. You were never deserving of it, I hope you have found what you do deserve, which is all the joy man can know, your memory will linger in my heart as long as it beats, and I hope that you know that as false as I proved to be, my love of you was most genuine, and still is, like a thousand year old cave painting lost in meaning to the world but not in beauty.
Submitted by: MJ
I regret that I am seriously UNABLE to turn away from physical attention. Ever since I messed up a year ago (when I genuinely thought I was in love with my soul-mate), I have even lower self esteem than I’ve ever had. I wish I could erase all of my wrongdoings but I just continue to make the same mistakes over and over and I have NO excuses. I’m terrified someone will find out what I’ve resorted to. I’m soooo sorry to the man who loves me more than anything…if he only knew…it would kill him. I love him with all my heart but I seriously need help. The happenings of a year ago haunt me every single day.
Submitted by: MeAgain
I’ve fantasized about sleeping with my father’s married best friend since I was 16. After months and months of flirting and nothing happening (of course), I became comfortable with him as more of a fatherly figure to me. He has a son and daughter who plays with my sibling when they come over, I’ve gotten along very well with his wife, and we all have a good time together. Years have gone by like this. For one year, I was gone all the time, transforming into I am now with a guy who really screwed me over. Lately, I’ve been staying home over the weekend, just spending time with my dad and his friends. My dad’s best friend and I get along really well because we have so much in common. He’s very attractive, he’s a great husband, and a loyal friend to my father. The idea of him being more of a fatherly figure just settled in over time and I began to love him that way. Recently, we were left alone. While we talked, there was something in his eye that had changed. I paid no mind because quite frankly it was what I had always fantasized about. I was turned-on, I was reeled in, and then we kissed. We were all over each other for maybe an hour. I finally went home, but by the time I laid down to go to bed, I was horrified at myself. I couldn’t believe that I had done that. Just the other night, we did it again. He begs for more, he tells me how beautiful I am. All that a woman would want to hear. I’m so paranoid, nervous, and at the same time excited that I feel like I’m on the brink of an anxiety attack. I’m so unsure of what to do. If I tell him “no more”, I will be so upset and I’ll miss him so much. If I keep this going, it’ll ruin our lives if we get caught.
Submitted by: Michigan Girl
I regret thinking the way I did. I regret doing what I did to make my husband of 2 weeks so angry that he left me, however I also regret that he couldn’t move past something so small and unintentional. I’m lost. I don’t understand what to do, I don’t understand the issues affecting a retired army man and why they push away loved ones. No I didn’t cheat either. If anyone can help please let me know. I miss my husband and I’m trying to fight for my marriage but don’t know what do next when he says its over anytime I bring up.
Submitted by: A.E.
Last night I slept with a married man. I have known him since we were 12 and we were each others first loves. At 17 we broke up and reunited this year. We are both 34. He is separated and awaiting for his divorce papers to come in. His wife has agreed to sign. They have two daughters…one being a 3 month old. Although this lay was quick, it was long awaited. I feel so guilty now. I know guys tell you what they want to make it sound good, but I know he is not living in the same house with her, etc. We both say we love each other and ultimatley want to get together. I told him when I see the final papers it is on. Unfortunately I have made this mistake. I WILL NOT see him until it is all final….or maybe not. Judge all you want, only God can judge me. I know my wrong and am willing to do right. Stay tuned….
Submitted by: Gilt
I regret thinking that everything was funny, when in reality it was horrible, nasty, slutty, mean, stupid and wrong. I regret being a bitch, and kissing your best friend just because i wanted to make you care. I didn’t think you would. But you did and now you hate me, and I like you. I regret getting with you when you hate me, and you tell me that you like me, but you wish you didn’t. I regret crying. I wish I could promise not to get with you again, because when we do it makes me sad and you angry. I wish you could trust me. Even though i know if i was in your shoes… I wouldn’t.
Submitted by: Leeann D.
I regret everything I did 2 years ago. I should have told you how much I care, that you are so exceptional in my life, that you are the best as you are. I behaved differently and told you the things that are opposite. I told you that I am not interested in you at all, that you are nobody. I was scared and frustrated because you were so shy to talk to me at all. I sent you recently an e-mail and I am waiting for your answer. Maybe it is useless and meaningless now. I only need you to listen to what I want to say & explain that I can be free again. Free from all the wrong things I did. I will love you always and no one will replace you in my life. I regret that I won’t ever find out what you thought and felt about me.
I love you more than anything.
Submitted by: ASV
I’m sorry that I’m only there for you some of the time. No one’s more important to me and more present for me. Please know how much I believe in you and support and love you even in those moments when you can’t reach me or I’m away.
Submitted by: There for you
remember when i told you i thought i loved you, now, too late, I realize i do.
Submitted by: paul
i regret that i didn’t give you another chance when i had the chance, i regret that neither of us could get past our own pride and make it work, i regret that we let go of each other…i wish that we could speak once more…part of me will always love you, all these years later
Submitted by: nicole
I regret that I impulsivly stole that pack of gum in front of my coworkers. I know it sounds trivial but one of them was a boy named tyler who I could have been close friends with. But now, because he was the one who saw me, he just thinks of me as a liar and a thief. I wrecked any chance of a relationship with him and also destroyed my relationship with my boss who is also a close friend. In all of my seventeen years I have never regretted anything so much. Now, I have to go to work everyday being seen as a liar and a thief even though I know that’s not really me. I’m just stupid. But it is a lesson I will carry with me forever, even trivial things like a fifty cent pack of gum can change the course of a life. I will never shoplift or do anything like that again.
Submitted by: Meredith
I regret not going further than kissing the night i cheated on you. I don’t care that she was drunk, i wish that when she said she wanted to take advantage of me, that i would have figured out a way for her to.
I regret telling you how selfish i was, because it slammed us back into the situation i tried so hard to get out of.
I regret going along with you when you assumed i was your girlfreind.
I regret telling you i wasn’t actually a lesbian, when i didnt even really know one way or the other.
I regret offering you my life, before i’d ever tasted another woman.
I regret loving you, because no matter what i do now, i know i will regret it.
Submitted by: Angel