{"id":11,"date":"2006-07-19T17:15:25","date_gmt":"2006-07-19T17:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/69.89.31.128\/~iregretn\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/?p=11"},"modified":"2006-07-19T17:15:25","modified_gmt":"2006-07-19T17:15:25","slug":"we-frown-on-people-who-praise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/2006\/07\/19\/we-frown-on-people-who-praise\/","title":{"rendered":"We frown on people who praise&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I regret that we frown on people who praise, who can&#8217;t in fact keep from praising. I regret all the distances and differences between us and that trespassing them often seems too great a risk. I regret that to be kind, yes, to praise, and to express regret can be construed as either inauthentic or weak-minded or both. I regret my pulse sometimes and how eagerly it beats. I regret that most of the time you cannot see me as I am &#8212; as me, wanting to love you, as flawed but always evolving, trying &#8212; that your need to distrust me, to self-protect, is greater than your need to love me, to make a home in me or with me.<\/p>\n<p>Submitted by: Anonymous<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I regret that we frown on people who praise, who can&#8217;t in fact keep from praising. I regret all the distances and differences between us and that trespassing them often seems too great a risk. I regret that to be kind, yes, to praise, and to express regret can be construed as either inauthentic or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,10,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-everyoneeverything-else","category-lovers","category-yourself"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}