{"id":417,"date":"2010-02-03T22:47:36","date_gmt":"2010-02-04T03:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/2010\/02\/03\/the-neediness-prevented-me-from-respecting-you-as-i-should-have\/"},"modified":"2010-02-03T23:10:13","modified_gmt":"2010-02-04T04:10:13","slug":"the-neediness-prevented-me-from-respecting-you-as-i-should-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/2010\/02\/03\/the-neediness-prevented-me-from-respecting-you-as-i-should-have\/","title":{"rendered":"The neediness prevented me from respecting you as I should have&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You still wonder why I didn&#8217;t want to be with you. I wish you didn&#8217;t. You&#8217;re so bright and kind, but here it is: you&#8217;re too desperate and you wear it all over you like a bad rash. It&#8217;s oppressive to a woman, especially this one. Also, I&#8217;m sorry to have to say this, but you are so alarmingly hairy. Your chest hair was like hair from someone&#8217;s head &#8212; really long and straight a little frightening (like a coat). You were an unbelievable lover (I&#8217;m not kidding, all your intensity works soooo well for you there), but the hair was, well, overwhelming, and the neediness prevented me from respecting you as I should have. I couldn\u2019t see past it to all your many qualities. Sometimes we can&#8217;t control what attracts us, what makes us stay and feel safe with someone, but I don&#8217;t want you to wonder anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Submitted by: Wish I didn\u2019t have to<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You still wonder why I didn&#8217;t want to be with you. I wish you didn&#8217;t. You&#8217;re so bright and kind, but here it is: you&#8217;re too desperate and you wear it all over you like a bad rash. It&#8217;s oppressive to a woman, especially this one. Also, I&#8217;m sorry to have to say this, but [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-exs","category-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=417"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/417\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iregret.net\/wp-goodies\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}